Monday, November 3, 2014
Thursday, October 9, 2014
Maximum Return with Minimum Effort- Quick Fix
I
wanted to focus on the issues that bothered him and how I could help him. I
just interrupted and asked him ‘how can I help you?’ He continued his story and
stated that he had a very short leave from my work. Within the short span of
time he needed to go for a treatment for which he has come from Gulf. He has
been suffering from severe headache for three years. He added that one doctor had advised him to
meet a Psychologist and then a Neurologist. That is how he had called me. Now
he needed my help to overcome this problem and that he had just a few days
leave. Therefore he wanted me to suggest something that will work for him and
provide quick relief. He further informed me that he is also supposed to meet a
Neurologist seeking relief for the same problem.
This is the common tendency of human beings now
days we are in a Quick Fix Mentality. When I asked Richey, he tried all the
techniques to cure his headache for three years. Yet nothing worked!! There
have been moments of relief along the way but after some time the problem became worse. I found that he
tried to target the symptoms without addressing the root or cause reveling in
its temporary relief. When he feels little relief either he will stop or if the
treatment technique requires more effort he will quit and start the new
technique.
Richey
ended up with four months treatment for his headache. The Neurologist’s
diagnosis was that he removes the myelin sheath through a surgery from the
nerve of the lower part of the brain.
As
the problem was a little severe at that point of time since it had not been
diagnosed in the early stage; there were many side effects like inability to
walk and talk. Doctor suggested that he undergoes surgery as early as possible. Since he was also in a hurry to fix his problem,
he agreed and the surgery was done.
However,
due to his anxiety and fear, it took a long time for him to recover from the
problem. The Doctor who had done the surgery was surprised to see Richey’s slow
recovery (which normally takes less than 40 days for the person to recover).
When
it comes to chasing instant result Richey is not alone. In every walk of life from medicine and
relationships to business and politics, we are all hooked on the quick fix
solution. We all look for short cuts- what is known as the ‘Quick fix’ mentality.
Today the ‘quick fix’ mentality has become the standard across the board in our
fast forward, demanding and just –add- water culture.
If you turn the pages of the news paper in the
morning, your eyes just gets locked in the advertisement with sedative promises
of maximum return for minimum effort. Lose your weight in five days! Buy this educational
DVD that helps your child to become genius, work for an hour from home and earn
thousands in every month. We are all
trying to solve our problems in a hurry what Carl Honore refers it ‘sticking on
a plaster when surgery is needed’ might deliver temporary reprieve but usually
at the price of shortening up worse trouble for later. The hard unpalatable
truth is that the quick fix never truly fixes anything at all sometime it makes
things worse.
I
believe lately, people are obsessed with this quick fix even though there are
many examples in front of them who took the quick and easy way and the policy
of maximum return in minimum effort; but are struggling to come back to the
normal life (IPL fixing, corruption cheating cases). So nature has a law. Since
we are all part of nature, if we go against nature or try to break the rule of nature
we have to pay for it.
There
are many historical examples of short cut which cut short them. In politics, war or in the business policy one
who used quick fix for a problem which required a thoughtful decision has
failed and they had to pay more than what is expected. Richey is none other
than the sample population in the society.
When
we look into the evolution of this quick fix Peter Whybrow in his book “American
Mania” explains; Human brain has two basic mechanisms for solving
problems-which are commonly called System 1 and system 2. According to him the
evolution of human problem solving skills and tendencies are quick for our
ancestors. His explanation system 1 is the fast and institutive almost like
thinking without thinking when we see the dog chasing, our brain maps out the
best escape route and send us hurtling towards it Quick fix.
System
2 is slow and deliberate. It is the conscious thinking that we do when we are asked
to calculate 28 times 18 or analyze the possible side- effects of a new social
policy. It involves planning, critical analysis and rational thoughts. Also, it
is driven by parts of the brain that continue to develop after birth and into
adolescence. Thus, system 2 consumes more energy.
Evolution
matches with system1. Early men ate when hungry, drank when thirsty and slept
when tired. There was no tomorrow. Survival depends on what you did each day.
Hence inherited brain focuses on short term solutions and rewards us for
pursuing them.
Now
in a complex post industrial world, system2 should be the king. I am not advocating
that quick fix is bad or that each problem needs to be solved slowly. We live
in the society where tomorrow also equally important. We are like expecting
Christ Gayle to hit six for every ball after he scored a record score at
Bangalore! I remember Samuel Johnson
quote “we let hope triumph over experience”.
These
days hurry is our answer to every problem and even in life, we walk fast talk
fast read fast, eat fast make love fast and think fast. This is the century of
speed in everything including building relationships and parting from the same.
As Carl Honore says, “we are ignoring the golden rule of seven Ps: Prior Planning and Preparation Prevents Piss Performance”. We are in a hurry to get
rich fast. We are in a hurry to cure our problems fast. We are addicted to eating
fast food and we are in a hurry to eat already baked food instead of baking it
and eating. However, all this may lead to the cutting our life short.
The
‘quick fix’ is sometimes the wrong choice to solve a problem. No algorithm has
ever helped solve the global issues. No quickly made choice has ever turned
around a life. No drug has ever cured a chronic illness; No educational DVD has
ever transformed a child into a baby Einstein. We tend to throw money for
everything to solve problems. Expecting instant miracle relief from any problem
is against the law of the nature. There is no right or wrong attitude towards ‘quick
fix’. It is a matter of choice whether you live a relaxed or ‘quickened’ life
style.
The
real trouble nowadays is that no one wants to wait for anything anymore. Before
the question is understood, we decide the answer. Nature always works with a
principle. We need to respect it. Our needs and expectation need to match with
the nature’s law rather than depend on the quick fix mentality.
Madhusoodana Sunnambala
Wednesday, April 23, 2014
Reel Hero’s and real ……….?
Since I spend two third of
my time in a day with adolescence. I know how much this film actors,
celebrities’ sports stars and public figures act upon young mind. Especially
their life styles their opinions, their stand on the societal customs and
norms. The way they respect and act on to retain the social institutions. It
may be parenting, marriage or some taboos.
The time when transition
takes place in one’s life from childhood to adulthood what we call ‘adolescence’
are in search of the answer “who I am” the answer can be seen on the bedroom
walls different posters of their so called role models. This may be a film hero’s
sports star public entertainer who always can be seen in their TV screen. But I
am sure it’s never the people who work for a cause social service activist
freedom fighter at large.
The influence of the
people who always hit on the main pages of the news paper who shine in the
channel who’s posters can be seen in the public places are quite high with
young mind.
If you want to notice the
developmental stages of the of a person or to understand the developmental
stages proposed by either Erickson or Piaget take a look into the bedroom of a
child if its female the whole room will be filled with Barbie dolls books
posters dresses Barbie cosmetics if its boy Ben10, Spider man. When the child
turns 12 or 14 Ben10 is replaced by sports stars, film hero’s celebrities books
are film fare, sports star and automobile magazines. This is because they are
busy with identifying themselves in this process they keep some role models who
will fit into their ideal self.
According to Erickson’s
psychosocial stages development adolescence is the period when young adults
attempt to develop identity and idea about their strengths, weaknesses, goals,
occupations sexual identity and gender roles. Teens try different identities
and they have so many possibilities. Since this stage of development primarily
depends upon what one does to himself or in other words he takes responsibility
of his growth and development. The life during this time definitely getting
more complex as an attempt to find own identity.
The role of the film stars
and celebrities are immense in this stage as adolescence wants attention in the
society hence they fall upon to follow these people and read about them try to
imitate them who fix into their image. On an average we find the role models
are mainly from the stardom- the hero’s in the reel the hero’s whom they
admire. But the question arises Are these hero’s good example for these young
mind? When obviously there is a mismatch with the hero’s real life and reel
life what appears to be depicted as flowery movies is not the real itself- life
is no always with happy endings as in movies. In the reel life he succeeds in
spite of all mishappenings and in reality???? Some cases of divorce, drink and
drive, abuse in the public places misbehavior cheating etc which really what
they fight on the screen but in reality that element is missing in most of the
cases. Hence our young mind may believe
some time what their role model says it’s also because of prestige suggestion
and adolescence are more suggestible during this period with respect to the
self image.
Albert Bandura social
learning theorist suggests that people tend to display behaviors’ that are
learned intentionally or through the influence of examples. Since identity
formation is the central focus during adolescence, adolescents are particularly
influenced by adults in the environment. (Erickson) adolescents often look to
adults in order to determine as well as to identify models of whom they want to
be like.
Now in an age where we
have more contact with celebrities’ gossips than we have ever had we are faced
with a question. Are our young adults are getting good examples to imitate,
model and set examples.
Culture idols need to
think twice before making a poor decision because of their influence on their
young fans and other people who may look up to them.
Media certainly plays a
big role in celebrity obsession because of widespread audience and profit
involved. When it comes to family and marriage the couple who lived for say 25
to 30 years together need to pay the news paper to publish their anniversary
photos and good message of the mantra of staying together, in this present so
called self centered society. But when it comes to separation divorce
especially the stardom news papers and visual media is keen in bringing the
full page information like a deductive. Media has better diary of the
celebrities where when what and how of the separation and there comes a huge
real story of a reel hero.
What I stress is-Yes
people do have pressure in life and every individual has a personal way of
coping. But in divorce, drink, harassment or whatever is it right on the part of media to leak out
their private life instead of giving space required at such time?.
If media and the stardom
can act more responsibly to be a good example for these tender minds not to
develop negative attitude towards some of the social institutions which will
spiflicate the future.
ALL THAT BEGINS WELL ENDS
WELL so let adolescent begin well so that life ends well
Not to say PICTURE ABHI
BHAKI HEI
Madhusoodan. Sunnambala
Psychologist
Wednesday, January 23, 2013
Thursday, September 20, 2012
Who wants to be a good teacher?
Teaching
profession is unique in its kind. Since teaching is an art and skill it calls
for a training and practice. The question of what makes a good teacher has
resulted in an endless steam of ideas, opinions and theories. Different definitions of teaching different
ideas and traits that make up character different environment and different
students can all affect teaching proficiency.
All
students have had hundreds of teachers in their life time. Among them a few
teachers are remembered as being exceptionally good. There need to be many
qualities and traits to be at good teaching.
Being able to master a good mix in a specific learning environment is
likely to make one a good teacher. There are some teachers who
inspire students to work three times harder than they normally would, while
others inspire students to skip classes. Students learn more from some teachers
than others, they admire them, see them as a role model feel free to speak to
them whenever possible and follow them without insisting.
Now
the basic question what makes a good teacher? Based on my few years of teaching
experience and my involvement in teacher empowerment programme I would say
there are list of qualities required to
be a good teacher. Among them few I would say core qualities which are must for
a teacher to excel as a good teacher. In most of my training programmes for the
teachers I used to give a small activity for the participants’ to list out the
qualities required to be a good teacher. They use to come up with many qualities
and I took all of them and listed them in main five categories which I would
like to name as core qualities in which all other qualities and traits are interlined to be a good teacher.
All
good teaching starts with specific clear and measurable goals and objectives.
Goals are those general statements of outcome and objectives are how the goals
are to be reached. It is also true that good teaching is not subject specific;
most important traits or qualities transcend subjects.
The
five clusters of qualities of a good teacher are:
·
Knowledge
of the subject:
Well
it is the one of the important prerequisites of a good teacher. Teacher should
have a clear understanding and depth knowledge in the subject what he teaches.
In
this Information Technology era student’s area aware of things around them but a
good teacher always puts them in a proper container and explains the practical
usage of that information in an accessible way. Imparting information is no more the objective
of education. Even though the information is in the reachable for the students
from different sources like books internet and other sources class room
teaching has never lost its relevance. Classroom
teaching is not just delivering the information to the student this is where
the good teacher wins the heart of the student. The teacher who goes to the
class with confidence in his subject delivers quality information with the
recent updates. Getting to the heart of the students and connecting it to them
and their everyday life helps make the subject matter relevant. Hence the
teacher is a continuous learner to update his knowledge and skill in delivery. Why to teach that subject it is not because it
is in the curriculum or it in the text book or they should write in the
examination to get marks A good teacher
understands the rationality behind the teaching and learning the subject he
teaches that makes a good teacher.
·
Communication:
Communication is more than speaking or writing.
To be effective, communication requires the creation of a common understanding
of ideas, desires and observations among people. In this context communication
is a two-way exchange that involves both a teacher and the student and it is a
skill to be an effective communicator.
How to achieve this just speaking and delivering information and
statistical data is not communication in the class. Since it’s a skill it needs
practice and effort from the teacher to be a good communicator.
The general rule of good presentation, voice, and volume
gestures, humor, timing of the course, sufficient knowledge of the subject are
all essential are communication essentials. I quote what I read ‘a good teacher
is often a good entertainer’ good entertainer appears self confident on stage,
work with their audience and have what is called stage presence. This is an
ability to connect with the audience in a way that is not quantifiable. The self
confidence, empathy and ability to connect with the people one wishes to reach.
This is not something that can be easily taught. It comes with experience, and
open personality. The difficulty involved in learning how to teach this
communication. Since it is a skill and teaching is an art it can be certain
degree teachable. The ability to tell a good story (Adams 1987) research
mentions story telling as a mark of good teaching. Sharing personal experience
from life research previous employment is excellent source of materials.
Another basic requirement in communication is that understanding the audience,
in the classroom setting it is the ability to read the class. Knowing when they have had enough, when they
want to stop and discuss something when they want to hear more. Listening is an equal partner with speaking in
defining effective communication. Listening is also an active process in
communication that includes maintaining eye contact; providing positive
non-verbal feedback, like nodding the head appreciating the idea of the
student.
·
Innovative and creative:
Creativity
in teaching is using imaginative approaches to make learning more interesting
and effective’. A major effect for learners at the school was an immediate
experience of the dynamic, appreciative, captivating and caring ethos. The
construction of this type of ethos has many objectives but in terms of teaching
and learning one of the school’s major aims was to make the learning experience
relevant to learners, to make it interesting. For young learners this meant an
ethos that was dynamic and active: There is a continuous throb of movement and
a quiet hum of activity. The school understands young children as active agents
who experiment with their bodies, emotions and intellects. Teachers acknowledge
the enormous capacity of young children to take in an extensive variety of
experiences in any one day. Maths was made exciting, literacy experienced as a
set of keys unlocking a whole range of delights and emotional journeys, science
was developed as a passion for enquiry, discovery and experimentation,
technology provided intensely focused activity involving problem solving,
frustration and satisfaction and the arts were valued as opportunities for
expression. Creative and innovative teacher provides students little extended,
unhurried time to explore and do
their best work. Provide an abundant
supply of interesting and useful materials
and resources. Create a
classroom climate where students
feel mistakes are acceptable and risk taking is encouraged. Good teacher is always able to motivate his
students by using creative and inspirational methods of teaching he is
different in his approach and that makes him to stand out from the crowd hence
the reason why students enjoy ones class and seeks him out for new ideas.
·
Empathy
and accessibility:
Empathy
and accessibility are the most consistently required quality and elements for
good teaching and a teacher. It is important to note that whatever is taught
must somehow relate to the experience to the student or it will be sterile.
Drawing the good and bad experience of the students draws them into discussion
and makes them their part of the lesson. To relate this way one must understand
the student getting to know the student is key to good being a good teacher.
Some students will be having a considerable experience others do not adding to
the complexity faced by the teacher. How to deal with these differences and be
able to empathize with the learner requires creativity, time and experience. It
is the reason why variety in teaching methods is important. Majority of the
students see accessibility as the major aspect of good teaching. ‘Being around’
gives more information and feedback about the students and teaching.
·
Humor:
A good teacher should also have the quality and
characteristic of having a good sense of humor. It is a logical fact, that a
person generally teaches the next generation and as they are younger than the
teacher, they are expected to have more fun in the class too. So, a good
teacher is the one who can cope up with his sense of humor, and with his strong
communication skills and personality, can also maintain the discipline of the
class.
There's another aspect of fun that's equally important. If the
teacher's having fun, there's a good chance the students are also. Students of
all ages appreciate a teacher who's having a good time. Hard work and
dedication are not exclusive of having fun. In fact, one of the valuable things
I learned during my student teaching was that the harder I worked outside of
class getting ready for it, the more fun I had inside the
class. When students say that a teacher is "fun" or teaches a
"fun class," they don't mean it's all fun and games in which no
teaching or learning is going on. They simply mean that the teacher enjoys what
he or she is doing, and that it becomes an important part of the atmosphere of
the classroom. In the teaching profession hard work and fun go together.
Humor is very effectual on children’s learning and is considered
as a desirable personality trait. Individuals with a high sense of humor are
thought to have some distinguishing characteristics such as optimism,
self-esteem, stress management skills, positive self-esteem, autonomy and
social skills.
Prof. Madhusoodana.
Sunnambala
Head of the Department (Psychology)
Horizon Campus Malabe
madhusoodansp@gmail.comTuesday, July 24, 2012
Teaching is a profession which teaches all other professions’ But????...
Dr. A.P.J
Abdul Kalam the former President of India was asked to contest for President
Election recently he refused and replied I will be a teacher than a
President! As all of us know the
President is the first citizen of the country and it’s a most prestigious
position. But for Dr. Kalam being a teacher is more than that simply because
‘teaching is a noble profession’. It is a service oriented, it has a potential
to have a great impact on the moulding of next generation. This profession is
looked with honour and respect, many wants to be a teacher not with caprices of
this profession just to serve and feel worth living. Teaching is a one of a
kind profession; this career choice may be frustrating, exciting, and also very
fulfilling those who are fully dedicated to choose teaching as their long life
career.
A teacher
should be a teacher in every moment in his life his attitude life style
behavior everything matters a lot to himself and to the society as well. So he
is more conscious of his life and behavior and also he should live up to the
expectations of the society in spite of his financial hardship and professional
life.
It is hard
to believe but the fact is that teaching is stressful job hence most teachers
deal with big stress level each day. It always goes unnoticed by the society
management and the policy makers. Some teachers may think that he has a
‘mellow’ job so he is least bothered about his health effects of stress. The
teachers stress level proven to cause physical problems, such as blood pressure
and a slew of other problems.
Many studies
evidenced certain source for stress for teachers in teaching profession. I also
interacted with many people who are involved in this profession and I strongly
feel there are certain areas needs to be focused for better in the point of
pupils’ the well being of the teacher and the genuine improvement of the
school.
More than
two –thirds of teachers have experienced or witnessed bullying which resulted
for one in five to quite the job. Apart from bulling on teachers themselves
being shouted at in front of their pupils would set a bad example for children
who were themselves bullied because it would send a signal to their tormentors
that such behavior was tolerated. And the consequences for teacher of being
bullied were devastating for their health and wellbeing. Loss of confidence,
dread of going to work, sleepless nights, family disputes are some of the
effects of this.
One teacher confessed
‘the school needs to improve but I am not sure it can’ common sense and trust
in human communication is being forced out of profession. A lot of teachers
seem to like being told exactly what to do and how to do it. The status quo is
just fine for a lot of middle and senior management too. It allows them to
wield power justify inflated salaries and be recognized by their peer as being
‘outstanding’ teachers. Recognition the children in their classes would never
give them. Never mind they never really liked teaching children that much
anyway!
Teaching is
a political football; it changes all the time- the combination of continual
change with frequent market need, societal demand, coupled with long unsociable
hours and poor pay makes up a stressful recipe. All though the school day may
be shorter than most office working days, teachers put in many more hours in
the evening and at weekends preparing lessons, marking work and organizing
extracurricular activities. As one teacher admits I teach twenty five lessons a
week despite my best intensions some of these lessons are boring. To plan an
outstanding lesson can take hours. I can do that for every lesson I teach.
Sometimes I stand in the class delivering a lesson I know isn’t as good as it
could be. I know how to make it better. I just don’t have time to do it. I
don’t think children notice they are used to this.
Another
important area which appears to make teachers more pressured than other
professions. Problems in relationship with managers-head teacher, deputy
teacher, sectional heads. If there is a good relationship, professional as well
as humanitarian then teachers feel free to express themselves to ventilate
their feelings. Most of the time its lacking, building relationship and
maintaining the same relationship has a very positive effect in any profession
but in teaching it has double effect. The problem here is if any problem arise
the teacher need to tackle alone so the feeling of isolation troubles the
teacher which may lead to the resignation of the teacher from that school. Even
while handing the problem behavior of the child the teacher should do it alone
and also teacher have to look after their pupil’s welfare and also the school
boundaries which are imposed on them so teacher gets little outside support.
This sense of isolation can grow and contribute to teacher burnout.
The school
leadership is also another important area of concern. One of the most
consistent findings from studies of effective school leadership is that
authority to lead need not be located in the person of the leader but can be
dispersed within the school between and among people. There is a growing
understanding that leadership is embedded in various organizational contexts
within school communities, not centrally vested in a person or an office. The
real challenge facing most schools is no longer how to improve but, more
importantly, how to sustain improvement. Sustainability will depend upon the
school’s internal capacity to maintain and support developmental work and sustaining improvement requires the
leadership capability of the many rather than the few. Many so called leaders
in the school lacks leadership quality hence they may hurt the feelings of the
teachers in the name of quality improvement.
--Prof. Madhusoodan Sunnambala
Friday, June 15, 2012
The most successful teachers share some common characteristics
The most successful teachers share
some common characteristics. Here are the top six keys to being a successful
teacher. Every teacher can benefit from focusing on these important qualities.
Success in teaching, as in most areas of life, depends almost entirely on your
attitude and your approach.
1. Sense of Humor A sense of humor
can help you become a successful teacher. Your sense of humor can relieve tense
classroom situations before they become disruptions. A sense of humor will also
make class more enjoyable for your students and possibly make students look
forward to attending and paying attention. Most importantly, a sense of humor
will allow you to see the joy in life and make you a happier person as you
progress through this sometimes stressful career.
2. A Positive Attitutude A positive
attitude is a great asset in life. You will be thrown many curve balls in life
and especially in the teaching profession. A positive attitude will help you
cope with these in the best way.
3. High Expectations An effective
teacher must have high expectations. You should strive to raise the bar for
your students. If you expect less effort you will receive less effort. You
should work on an attitude that says that you know students can achieve to your
level of expectations, thereby giving them a sense of confidence too. This is
not to say that you should create unrealistic expectations. However, your
expectations will be one of the key factors in helping students learn and
achieve.
4. Consistency In order to create a positive
learning environment your students should know what to expect from you each
day. You need to be consistent. This will create a safe learning environment
for the students and they will be more likely to succeed. It is amazing that
students can adapt to teachers throughout the day that range from strict to
easy. However, they will dislike an environment in which the rules are
constantly changing.
5. Fairness Many people confuse
fairness and consistency. A consistent teacher is the same person from day to
day. A fair teacher treats students equally in the same situation.
6. Flexibility One of the tenets of
teaching should be that everything is in a constant state of change.
Interruptions and disruptions are the norm and very few days are 'typical'. Therefore,
a flexible attitude is important not only for your stress level but also for
your students who expect you to be in charge and take control of any situation.
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